Dating life is one of the key parts of the lifestyle of any person. Unfortunately, many people suffer from their bad dating life.
We’ve decided to write the following article as many young men think about this situation all the time. There are numerous reasons why you don’t have a normal dating life – your job, daily obstacles, various family-related issues.
GurusWay presents you with the core and the most common issues which have their negative impact on your dating life.
After reading this, hopefully, you’ll be able to start your dating life from a blank page and move forward.
1. You’re Too Boring
Have you such a situation during your date that you talk all the time about your work?
Work, work, work. Stop it! Talking all the time about your job is boring.
Talk about anything else, another more interesting topic. Try to talk about museums, theater, any upcoming concert trying to find out if you can invite her to that concert.
If you don’t have time to do such things, find it – life goes on. Try to manage your time more effectively, otherwise one day you’ll realize that you’re already 50 and you haven’t had time to make a family.
Come on – WAKE UP!
2. You Talk About Yourself All the Time
Talking all the time about what you want, will eventually repulse her from you.
Get rid of this bad habit!
Start to ask her questions. Start to know her better, about her preferences, her taste, her job, whether she has a pet or maybe she likes adventures.
There are numerous topics to talk about. Stop thinking about you, think and take care of her and make your communication more interesting.
3. You Only Date Your “Type”
Dating your kind of female can be quite ineffective, as you may not find the one you want.
Think of it a moment – if you feel that all the people you’ve met with have your characteristic traits, then it’s time to date not your type of person. Perhaps, this is not what women really look for in men and it’s definitely not what you’re searching for.
Related Article: Your Ultimate Guide to Dating Women
4. Because You’re Jaded
You have been on so many bad dates that you just don’t want to do it again. You’re not thinking about the fact that it’s time to change something to feel happy.
Sometimes, you are even ready to afford a prostitute who will immediately leave you after your meeting and will leave you alone, right?
Don’t do that.
Think bigger! Start to think positively, don’t spoil your life.
5. You are a Narcissist
Are you a Narcissist? No?
Maybe you are, but you don’t know about it. Maybe you are so egoist that you believe other people have born on earth to entertain you?
You are so selfish that don’t even think about other people, particularly women as individuals. This chart is a huge disturbing circumstance why your dating life sucks.
6. Bad Communication
Moving parallel with technological development can sometimes even harm communicating with people. Instead of talking many people currently prefer to take photos of each other, take selfies or just write messages to each other.
On the one hand, using such tools like FaceTime, WhatsApp, Skype, or liking other people’s posts is much of fun.
However, on the other hand, throughout the time you realize that you’re beginning to stop the real-time communication. Try to meet your friends or other people to recover your communication skills, after that do your best during the date.
James is the Founder & CEO of GurusWay.com. Majoring in Business and other life-changing sectors, James covers helpful content and shares his experience with the targeted audience.